Keep your marriage safe from an affair

Talk, talk, talk. Chatting often will keep you connected and fulfilled, and you won't feel like you need to find someone else to confide in. You can also communicate without speaking -- through things like a loving note left in his car or a sweet e-mail. Be supportive of each other, and before you know it, your conversation will probably turn to how much you love each other!

Stay involved in each other's work. Fifty percent of employees say they've known a married coworker that had an affair with someone at the office, according to a recent survey. Make it a priority to go to your spouse's job-related events, like happy hours and company parties. That way, you can meet the women your husband works with. At your office, let people know you're taken -- post pictures of your husband and family in your cube or locker and talk about them often. And stay away from temptation -- if you find yourself attracted to Ted in HR, avoid him so you don't put yourself in a sticky situation.